In general, people prefer giving directions to strangers over giving advice. It’s science.This classic joke was once rated as the world’s funniest (see, science): Two hunters are out in the woods when one of them collapses. He doesn’t seem to be breathing and his eyes are glazed. The other guy whips out his phone and calls the emergency services. He gasps, “My friend is dead! … [Read more…]

We’re all yin and yang. Balance is key. Please see the humor (or lessons?) in this post.The word “spirituality” seems to be tossed around pretty recklessly. “Are you spiritual?” comes up nearly as often as “what’s up?” does in casual conversation. I always want to follow up with “what the fuck is spirituality?”Truthfully, it’s a leading question. “Spirituality” is such … [Read more…]

Since we started this blog in December of 2013, I’ve mentioned repeatedly that my desire is to build a strong community. It has become our very own little family. My hope is this is a mutually beneficial relationship. I trust you get something out of it, and I most certainly derive strong benefit on a daily basis.I try to to preserve energy to write the posts, so I can’t … [Read more…]

Working on our voices in the same manner we hone our posture, body language, and physical prowess may be prudent.If you’ve been reading along, you know the importance we place on body language. It helps our confidence and our leadership. Rarely, however, does someone walk into a room and take over without ever saying a word.People’s voices, along with the power (or lack … [Read more…]

I despise small talk, and I’m bad at it. “What’s up?” is a terrible way to start a conversation. It inevitably leads to something like, “Nothing much, how about you?”Ultimately, we end up with an inefficient back and forth, learning nil before we (or if we) get to the good shit. By that time, boredom may douse the pilot light, ending the interaction before it ever really … [Read more…]