In order to be a strong communicator, sometimes you have to shut up and listen.I’ve always enjoyed the process of problem solving. My first inclination is always to come up with a solution. In recent years, however, I’ve discovered that playing a hushed role is far more effective to another working through an issue. From sklatch.com: Another significant barrier to good … [Read more…]

When someone in your life is facing a difficult situation, don’t wait for the “right moment” before reaching out with support. From Dr. Karin L. Smithson: We pull back because we “don’t want to bother” someone who is struggling. Let me debunk that myth: Your friend needs to hear from you. If you stop connecting, that communicates that their situation is unimportant. They will … [Read more…]

If you have an idea that you think will assist a loved one, don’t hold back; just hit ’em with it.Learning to accept constructive criticism with grace is a skill. Likewise, learning to deliver these suggestions needs to be learned and practiced. Many folks keep quiet out of fear of giving offense, even when another could benefit from some counsel.Now, I do not suggest … [Read more…]

The best way you can respect another human being is to communicate honestly with them. In professional and personal relationships, communicating messages quickly and directly is a solid way to demonstrate respect for another’s time. More importantly, both you and the receiving party will be better off.As a player, I clamored for honesty from my coaches. It did me little … [Read more…]

Humans are fundamentally social animals. The ability to communicate is one of our most important skills. Our ability to express ourselves defines and shapes us. It leads to feeling understood which is essential for our mental wellbeing.To date, Kaplifestyle has been running for more than 8 months. I have shared daily to the tune of more than 250 posts. We have covered a … [Read more…]