Since we started this blog in December of 2013, I’ve mentioned repeatedly that my desire is to build a strong community. It has become our very own little family. My hope is this is a mutually beneficial relationship. I trust you get something out of it, and I most certainly derive strong benefit on a daily basis.

I try to to preserve energy to write the posts, so I can’t always dive too deeply in the comments section. I try to display my gratitude and answer questions where I can, but at minimum, I read every one. Yesterday, one in particular caught my eye. It’s below:

From BeesMakeHoney:

Kap –

One thing that prevents me from commenting is that you so seldom carry on your discussions in the comments sections.

I too enjoy and seek out debate and intellectual stimulation on a broad range of topics, but I cringe when I see comment responses from you like ” Thanks – stay strong”.

Maybe you don’t find our comments meriting additional discussion? (and of course, not all do)

Curious is all – no ill will intended.

Figured I’d use the reply as today’s post.

BMH,

First, thank you. I appreciate the push.

I deliberately don’t answer comments elaborately as a general principle. My choice has zero to do with the merit of the comments; I read most with delight. Many times, the comments inspire future posts or further reflection. However, this is a question of intellectual bandwidth. I won’t walk you through my day job and the time limitations it creates. We all have them. I spend 30 minutes a day writing posts (give or take). Our community responds with such breadth and depth, if I were to take time to respond to each substantively, I’d never get anything else done.

I write because I love words. I write as an outlet. I write to give back. And I write to grow. Your feedback helps.

However, in this case, It’s also misguided. It lacks trust. That’s okay. Trust that I have limited ability to engage here. Trust that I’m not judging your comments.

And please come back and share your brilliance and bravery. Betting you’re brimming with both.

Peace,

Kap